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He's Just Not That Into You

He's Just Not That Into You

Comedy · Romance · Drama · 2009

Have you ever wondered why they said they would call but didn't, or why they don't want to sleep with you anymore, or why your relationship isn't going to the next level? Maybe they're just not that into you. Gigi wants a man who says he'll call her - and actually does - while Alex advises her to stop waiting by the phone. Beth wants a proposal after years of a committed relationship with her boyfriend, Neil, who is just fine with the way things are. Janine's not sure if she can trust her husband, Ben, who can't quite trust himself around Anna. Anna can't decide between the sexy married guy or her straightforward, no-sparks standby, Conor, who can't get over the fact that he can't have her. And Mary, who's found an entire network of loving, supportive men, just needs to find one who's straight.

Movie details

He's Just Not That Into You

“Are you the exception... or are you the rule?”

2009 Comedy · Romance · Drama 2h 9m

Critical arithmetic

The consensus, allegedly.

IMDb

6.4 / 10

193.3K votes

Rotten Tomatoes

42 %

Tomatometer

Metacritic

47 / 100

Metascore

TMDB

6.6 / 10

Community rating

External scores via OMDb · CC BY-NC 4.0. Values normalized for display; availability varies by title.

Have you ever wondered why they said they would call but didn't, or why they don't want to sleep with you anymore, or why your relationship isn't going to the next level? Maybe they're just not that into you. Gigi wants a man who says he'll call her - and actually does - while Alex advises her to stop waiting by the phone. Beth wants a proposal after years of a committed relationship with her boyfriend, Neil, who is just fine with the way things are. Janine's not sure if she can trust her husband, Ben, who can't quite trust himself around Anna. Anna can't decide between the sexy married guy or her straightforward, no-sparks standby, Conor, who can't get over the fact that he can't have her. And Mary, who's found an entire network of loving, supportive men, just needs to find one who's straight.

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Names above the title

The people responsible.

Directed by

Ken Kwapis

Written by

Marc Silverstein · Abby Kohn

Ginnifer Goodwin

Ginnifer Goodwin

Gigi Phillips

Justin Long

Justin Long

Alex

Jennifer Aniston

Jennifer Aniston

Beth Murphy

Ben Affleck

Ben Affleck

Neil

Jennifer Connelly

Jennifer Connelly

Janine Gunders

Bradley Cooper

Bradley Cooper

Ben Gunders

Scarlett Johansson

Scarlett Johansson

Anna Marks

Court is in session

Put He's Just Not That Into You on trial.

Two incompatible taste archetypes. One film. Read the arguments, then issue a completely binding cultural ruling.

The defence The Sentimental Softie

“Sincerity is not manipulation.”

The film risks embarrassment to make emotion communal, and that openness is harder than fashionable detachment.

The prosecution The Cool Ironist

“The strings are showing.”

Every cue tells you exactly what to feel and when, leaving sentiment to do the work character should have done.