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“Sincerity is not manipulation.”
The film risks embarrassment to make emotion communal, and that openness is harder than fashionable detachment.
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He Said, She Said
Comedy · Drama · Romance · 1991
Womanising, right-wing Dan Hanson and quiet, liberal Lorie Bryer work for the Baltimore Sun. Rivals for the job of new writer of a vacant column, the paper ends up instead printing their very different opinions alongside each other, which leads to a similarly combative local TV show. At the same time their initial indifference to each other looks like it may evolve into something more romantic.
Movie details
He Said, She Said
“The story of true love. Both versions.”
1991 Comedy · Drama · Romance 1h 55m
Critical arithmetic
The consensus, allegedly.
Scores change. Arguments endure.
IMDb
5.7 / 10
7.5K votes
Rotten Tomatoes
33 %
Tomatometer
TMDB
5.9 / 10
Community rating
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Womanising, right-wing Dan Hanson and quiet, liberal Lorie Bryer work for the Baltimore Sun. Rivals for the job of new writer of a vacant column, the paper ends up instead printing their very different opinions alongside each other, which leads to a similarly combative local TV show. At the same time their initial indifference to each other looks like it may evolve into something more romantic.
CriticWise case file
What this film says about your taste.
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The archetype split
Who fights over He Said, She Said?
For the defence
The Sentimental Softie
“You came to feel something, and you will.”
Read their case For the prosecution
The Cool Ironist
“Feeling things is a little embarrassing.”
Read their objectionThe split comes from the same five-axis model used by the test, not audience ratings or review sentiment.
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Names above the title
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Cast & crew
Directed by
Marisa Silver · Ken Kwapis
Written by
Brian Hohlfeld
Kevin Bacon
Dan Hanson
Elizabeth Perkins
Lorraine "Lorie" Bryer
Nathan Lane
Wallace "Wally" Thurman
Anthony LaPaglia
Mark
Sharon Stone
Linda Metzger
Stanley Anderson
Bill Weller
Charlayne Woodard
Cindy
Court is in session
Put He Said, She Said on trial.
Two incompatible taste archetypes. One film. Read the arguments, then issue a completely binding cultural ruling.
The prosecution The Cool Ironist
“The strings are showing.”
Every cue tells you exactly what to feel and when, leaving sentiment to do the work character should have done.