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The Tender Bar

The Tender Bar

Drama · 2021

JR is a fatherless boy growing up in the glow of a bar where the bartender, his Uncle Charlie, is the sharpest and most colorful of an assortment of quirky and demonstrative father figures. As the boy’s determined mother struggles to provide her son with opportunities denied to her — and leave the dilapidated home of her outrageous if begrudgingly supportive father — JR begins to gamely, if not always gracefully, pursue his romantic and professional dreams, with one foot persistently placed in Uncle Charlie’s bar.

Movie details

The Tender Bar

“Between the ones who love you and the ones who leave you is the journey of a lifetime.”

2021 Drama 1h 44m

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TMDB

6.6 / 10

Community rating

JR is a fatherless boy growing up in the glow of a bar where the bartender, his Uncle Charlie, is the sharpest and most colorful of an assortment of quirky and demonstrative father figures. As the boy’s determined mother struggles to provide her son with opportunities denied to her — and leave the dilapidated home of her outrageous if begrudgingly supportive father — JR begins to gamely, if not always gracefully, pursue his romantic and professional dreams, with one foot persistently placed in Uncle Charlie’s bar.

CriticWise case file

What this film says about your taste.

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The archetype split

Who fights over The Tender Bar?

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Names above the title

The people responsible.

Directed by

George Clooney

Written by

William Monahan

Ben Affleck

Ben Affleck

Charlie Maguire

Tye Sheridan

Tye Sheridan

JR Maguire

Daniel Ranieri

Daniel Ranieri

Young JR Maguire

Lily Rabe

Lily Rabe

Dorothy Maguire

Christopher Lloyd

Christopher Lloyd

Grandpa Maguire

Max Martini

Max Martini

The Voice, JR's father

Rhenzy Feliz

Rhenzy Feliz

Wesley

Court is in session

Put The Tender Bar on trial.

Two incompatible taste archetypes. One film. Read the arguments, then issue a completely binding cultural ruling.

The defence The Prestige Tourist

“Sincerity is not manipulation.”

The film risks embarrassment to make emotion communal, and that openness is harder than fashionable detachment.

The prosecution The Popcorn Loyalist

“The strings are showing.”

Every cue tells you exactly what to feel and when, leaving sentiment to do the work character should have done.