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How to Talk to Girls at Parties

How to Talk to Girls at Parties

Comedy · Music · Romance · 2017

In 1970s London, a teenage outsider named Enn falls in love with a rebellious alien girl named Zan, who has come to Earth for a party. Together, they navigate the complexities of intergalactic culture and the trials of first love.

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How to Talk to Girls at Parties

“Some girls are out of this world.”

2017 Comedy · Music · Romance 1h 43m

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6.0 / 10

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In 1970s London, a teenage outsider named Enn falls in love with a rebellious alien girl named Zan, who has come to Earth for a party. Together, they navigate the complexities of intergalactic culture and the trials of first love.

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Names above the title

The people responsible.

Directed by

John Cameron Mitchell

Written by

John Cameron Mitchell · Philippa Goslett

Elle Fanning

Elle Fanning

Zan

Alex Sharp

Alex Sharp

Enn

Nicole Kidman

Nicole Kidman

Boadicea

Matt Lucas

Matt Lucas

PT Wain

Ruth Wilson

Ruth Wilson

PT Stella

Abraham Lewis

Abraham Lewis

Vic

Ethan Lawrence

Ethan Lawrence

John

Court is in session

Put How to Talk to Girls at Parties on trial.

Two incompatible taste archetypes. One film. Read the arguments, then issue a completely binding cultural ruling.

The defence The Sentimental Softie

“Sincerity is not manipulation.”

The film risks embarrassment to make emotion communal, and that openness is harder than fashionable detachment.

The prosecution The Cool Ironist

“The strings are showing.”

Every cue tells you exactly what to feel and when, leaving sentiment to do the work character should have done.