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It's My Party

It's My Party

Drama · 1996

Nick, a gay, HIV-positive architect, begins to display severe symptoms of AIDS and makes preparations to kill himself before he is unable to function normally. He arranges a party to reconnect and say goodbye to his closest friends and his confused parents. But when his ex-partner, Brandon, a television director who left Nick when he was diagnosed with HIV, shows up, what was supposed to be a celebratory event becomes much more difficult for everyone.

Movie details

It's My Party

“A gathering of friends. A gift of love. A celebration of life.”

1996 Drama 1h 50m

Critical arithmetic

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TMDB

6.3 / 10

Community rating

Nick, a gay, HIV-positive architect, begins to display severe symptoms of AIDS and makes preparations to kill himself before he is unable to function normally. He arranges a party to reconnect and say goodbye to his closest friends and his confused parents. But when his ex-partner, Brandon, a television director who left Nick when he was diagnosed with HIV, shows up, what was supposed to be a celebratory event becomes much more difficult for everyone.

CriticWise case file

What this film says about your taste.

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The archetype split

Who fights over It's My Party?

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Names above the title

The people responsible.

Directed by

Randal Kleiser

Written by

Randal Kleiser

Eric Roberts

Eric Roberts

Nick Stark

Gregory Harrison

Gregory Harrison

Brandon Theis

Lee Grant

Lee Grant

Amalia Stark

Bruce Davison

Bruce Davison

Rodney Bingham

Olivia Newton-John

Olivia Newton-John

Lina Bingham

Devon Gummersall

Devon Gummersall

Andrew Bingham

Marlee Matlin

Marlee Matlin

Daphne Stark

Court is in session

Put It's My Party on trial.

Two incompatible taste archetypes. One film. Read the arguments, then issue a completely binding cultural ruling.

The defence The Prestige Tourist

“Sincerity is not manipulation.”

The film risks embarrassment to make emotion communal, and that openness is harder than fashionable detachment.

The prosecution The Adrenaline Seeker

“The strings are showing.”

Every cue tells you exactly what to feel and when, leaving sentiment to do the work character should have done.